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Lack of commitment and fighting among common divorce reasons

On Behalf of | Feb 8, 2019 | Divorce |

The good news for couples in Illinois is that divorce rates are on the decline. Still, there are times when legally wed individuals decide that it’s better to end a marriage. A group of researchers recently collaborated to poll individuals who had previously participated in a prevention and relationship enhancement program before marrying. The study focused on the participants who ended up divorcing in order to determine the factors involved with their splits.

Not surprisingly, too much conflict and arguing was identified as a leading cause of divorce just behind infidelity and a lack of commitment, which 75 percent of former spouses surveyed cited as a reason for the demise of their marital relationships. Just over 13 percent of the people polled felt little or no premarital education or religious differences played a role in their marriages ending. Even though everyone questioned had undergone premarital counseling, some respondents felt they weren’t fully prepared to deal with the various phases of a marriage.

With lack of family support, which was cited as a factor by nearly 20 percent of respondents, other research suggests the risk of divorce is lower when husbands have a better relationship with their in-laws, but this isn’t the case for wives. Some former couples surveyed talked about marital stress due to health problems experienced by one spouse while others cited physical and emotional abuse as major divorce factors. Substance abuse was another issue that took a serious toll on some marriages that ended. For other individuals surveyed, it was conflicting money management styles that created unsolvable marital tensions, and 45 percent of people questioned felt that getting married too young contributed to their splits.

The way a divorce takes place will depend on the specific factors involved and the nature of the marital relationship. For instance, lawyers may be able to help a divorcing couple avoid court costs and a long, drawn-out process if there is a joint willingness to be flexible and reasonable with divorce terms. Should this not be possible, an attorney may provide appropriate representation or bring in outside professionals to size up assets so that well-informed decisions can be made.